What’s on my Wish list?

 

I stumbled upon a “What’s in my bag” video. Clicked it. And, don’t know why but I enjoyed watching it till the end. And then you know what happens…!

Exactly!

YouTube started recommending me lots of “What’s in my bag” videos. The number of views on those videos gave a clear indication that (I’m not alone) people are ACTUALLY interested in looking inside someone else’s bag.

Well, I neither go out very frequently nor do I have any well-arranged bag that I can show off. But I certainly want to show off something very personal.

My Wish List! Or, shall I say my would-be Shopping Bag!?!

So, let me take you on a tour of my wish list, which surely is very interesting.

 A Shrug – There’s a very interesting story behind this shrug. I’ve added this shrug to my wish list so that I can rob two new tops from my sister. I don’t feel comfortable in sleeveless dresses but my sister brought some new sleeveless tops (for herself) that were so lovely. I snatched two of the tops telling her I would buy a shrug to wear over the tops. And, I’m certainly going to buy this cute pink shrug after the winter gets over.

 Weight Cuff – See I’m such a fitness freak! Just kidding! I need some extra muscle strength to push my wheelchair, do the daily chores without getting my arms tired. I use adjustable dumbbells currently and they are absolutely fine for me. But, I think a weight cuff will be better than the dumbbells. It is still on my wish list because I’m not getting permission to buy it from my parents.

 Vegetable Chopper – I love cooking and I’m an expert in chopping vegetables very finely with my regular kitchen knife. But, if there’s some tool that can make things a little easier, I’ll definitely like to try it.

Silicone Oil Brush – I already said, I love cooking. And, I also like to keep my cooking as healthy as I can without compromising on taste. If you use a spoon to put ghee or oil on your parathas, you end up putting a significant amount of fat. Oil brushes are really helpful when you wish to use oil or ghee but want to keep it at the minimum level. Actually, this silicone oil brush with steel handle moved to the ‘your orders’ section from the ‘your wish list’ section while writing this article.

Actually, my wish list has 36 (35 if you remove the oil brush) items but I’m listing only four because all others are books. I’ll share about those books once I read them. It feels so bad telling people that see I want to read these books but I haven’t bought them yet. Hope I read the books soon and share my opinion with you.    

My Love...

Being out of sight, won't take you out of mind
The toughest job for me is forgetting you I find

I can't ever stop loving, how far you go away
My dear love, I'll do, anything else you say

A morning wish, a good night kiss, I want none
I just pray Almighty, all your wishes to be done

Who says love is complete, if together we stay
Its eternal emotion, separation can't kill it away 

                                                                             .....Alokita

I have a heart too

I always want to meet, to get close, very close. I want to ask some questions though I never got a chance, but ....... but I know what the answer would be. Definitely I'll get the answer "I have a heart too, that feels happiness, that recognises sorrow,its not just a blood pumping machine for the body. I am also a human being just like you. I also need love, care and affection." Oh please don't glide with your imagination to the other way, I'm not telling you a story of break up or I have not broken anyone's heart. I am just talking about the people who are always neglected, the 'Intersex'.

Whenever we talk of a society we just think about the two sexes males and the females. It is  always forgotten that there is also a third category called the intersex . I don't know if our constitution gives them right to equality or not, but I know in practical they don't have any kind of  rights. Even they are not accepted in the family. The society have no place for them. We have educational or job oriented forms and in all of them we have just two options male or female. We have columns for the cast but we can't make a column for the intersex? Why? why they are not given any recognition ? Why are they forced to live in complete isolation ? Just because they can't reproduce? Just because they neither can attempt rape nor be the victim?Reproduction is a very important feature to maintain the population of a species but its not the only thing for the human beings. Are human beings made to just get birth and give birth ? 

According to commerce Human beings are the best resource of all the resources. All the Human capital should be developed to take the form of a resource for the nation's economy. Human beings does not only mean the males and the females, the intersex are also human beings and an asset for the country which need to be developed as a resource. 

Although many a time discriminated but the disabled have their place in society if they are male or female, they get chance to prove themselves but this is not the case with the intersex. Some are mentally disabled, some are physically disabled but they are the part of the society and they also play their part very well in the society. Similarly why can't the sexually disabled i.e. intersex be accepted in the society?? 

JUST THINK ABOUT IT.............................